Sex or the insinuation of sex is everywhere. Look at the different advertisements in different media, and you will get a hint of sex. While sex is used to people’s interests in different products and services, most romantic couples still feel awkward talking about sex. Likewise, they feel especially awkward when the topics are about adult toys.
Talking about sex may be difficult for couples, especially if they are starting their relationships. Most couples shy away when one partner talks about sex and what he or she wants to do during the deed. If you put sex toys into the conversation, you may get different reactions from your partner. However, adding toys to your sexual life may prove to be more beneficial to your relationship. Here are some of the benefits you will get when you mix toys with sex.
Spice Up Your Sex Life. Couples who have been in a relationship with each other for a long time may already have a sex life that is routine and “bleh”. Often, long-term couples find sex to be a tedious undertaking despite still loving one another. Sex toys can add excitement to a sex life that has gone dull or boring.
Increase Your Orgasms. It is common knowledge that most women cannot orgasm as easily as men do. Studies show that about 75 per cent of women do not reach orgasm during penetrative sex and that about 50 per cent of women have faked having an orgasm to please their partner.
With the use of sex toys, the chances of reaching orgasms will significantly increase. Adult toys with clitoral stimulation can provide excitement to women during penetrative intercourse, making them reach their climax easily.
Lessen Performance Anxiety. Suggesting the use of a sex toy during intercourse may make male partners feel inadequate. However, sex toys will also release the pressure of having to perform exceptionally during sex. You will be surprised to find out that most men will perform better if they feel the pressure of getting their partners “off” on their own is lifted from them.
However, it is still important to suggest the use of a sex toy slowly to your partner. Introduce the topic little by little during non-sexual situations.
Improve Intimacy. When you talk about what you want to do during sex, you increase your intimacy with your partner. However, when it comes to adding a sexual aid into the mix, you have to approach the conversation one piece at a time. Be prepared to get rejected at first but try to bring back the idea from time to time. If you feel that your partner is not up for the idea, prepare to drop the topic altogether.
Increase Chances of Staying Monogamous. Sex toys can add excitement to a sex life that has become boring. If you and your long-term partner become playful in the bedroom, you will have a different sexual experience each time you try on a new toy. Talking to your partner about your wants and needs during sex will create a better understanding of each other. This understanding will make your relationship last longer.
While adult toys may be a hard topic for conversation, talking about incorporating them into your bedroom activities may improve your romantic relationship.
